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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Fri, 17 Feb 2012 19:43:00 GMT--><rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:rss="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:admin="http://webns.net/mvcb/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:cc="http://web.resource.org/cc/"><rss:channel rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/"><rss:title>Resonance Blog</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/</rss:link><rss:description></rss:description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><dc:date>2012-02-17T19:43:00Z</dc:date><admin:generatorAgent rdf:resource="http://www.squarespace.com/">Squarespace Site Server v5.11.81 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</admin:generatorAgent><rss:items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/2/16/considering-different-perspectives.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/31/passing-a-business-from-generation-to-generation-a-childs-pe.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/24/small-shift-tip-have-the-courage-to-change.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/19/a-realistic-approach-to-goal-setting-in-the-new-year.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/12/new-yearreflect-let-go.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/9/there-is-opportunity-in-every-day.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/3/thoughtful-conscious-happiness.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2011/12/28/small-shift-tip-focus-on-the-things-that-are-fully-in-your-c.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2011/12/15/leadership-lessons-from-frosty-the-snowman.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2011/12/12/call-me-grinch-but-rudolph-the-red-nosed-reindeer-is-a-leade.html"/></rdf:Seq></rss:items></rss:channel><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/2/16/considering-different-perspectives.html"><rss:title>Considering Different Perspectives</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/2/16/considering-different-perspectives.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Robin Adwar</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-02-16T18:00:31Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Coaching Leadership Development Team communication productivity small shifts</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many times clients come into a coaching session with a lot of assessments and are very rigid about their perspective of a situation that they need to address. It is my role as their coach to question their assumptions, open their mind up to different interpretations and uncover different approaches to moving through a situation. It is not my role to validate or give them the solution.&nbsp; As a result, greater commitment and ownership by the individual is eventually established.</p>
<p>In a recent coaching session, my client was very sure that she knew what was keeping her direct report from performing up to the standards set for her.&nbsp; She believed that it was a lack of knowledge. Her partner did not believe this to be the case; she felt that it was a lack of training and communication.&nbsp; My client was very sure that her assessment was correct and as a result limited the communication with the direct report so as to avoid the frustration related to the lack of performance.&nbsp; This became a vicious cycle and led to the report&rsquo;s overall decrease in performance.</p>
<p>We spoke about the cycle of avoidance that was being created by the lack of dialogue. We talked through what the missing conversation looked like in order to close the gap between her perception and what was truly keeping her direct report from performing her job properly. My client was still very hesitant to believe there was any other perspective. After more probing what was discovered was that the direct report was not given the direction needed to complete her tasks - as much as my client thought she was giving it.&nbsp;My client was now open to the idea that maybe her partner had a valid point; maybe the training and communication was lacking.</p>
<p>My client made a commitment to speak to her employee. The direct report expressed that sometimes she felt very unsupported and that communication between the two was mediocre at best. The conversation was enlightening and my client felt that there were many shifts they could make together to move towards the right path and improve the situation between them and the performance of her direct report.</p>
<p>What do you think prevents us from opening up our minds to different perspectives?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/31/passing-a-business-from-generation-to-generation-a-childs-pe.html"><rss:title>Passing a Business from Generation to Generation: A Child's Perspective</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/31/passing-a-business-from-generation-to-generation-a-childs-pe.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Jonathan Hakakian</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-31T15:00:23Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Entrepreneur Family Business Small Business Team business transition family business succession planning</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This post is written in response to <a href="http://soundboardconsulting.squarespace.com/resonance/2011/10/18/passing-a-business-from-generation-to-generation-a-parents-p.html" target="_blank">Passing a Business from Generation to Generation: A Parents Perspective</a></em></p>
<p>Dear Mom &amp; Dad,</p>
<p>I know you don&rsquo;t think I know much, and while I don&rsquo;t have as many years of experience under my belt as you do, I can hold my own.&nbsp; I&rsquo;ve watched you build the business from the ground up, putting in back-breaking, long hours for days on end and know that this business would not be near where it is today without your efforts and labors early on.&nbsp;</p>
<p>But the business has grown from our basement to a multi-million dollar operation that&rsquo;s employing more people every year and continuing on a positive growth path. Of which you certainly deserve the bulk, if not all, of the credit.&nbsp;</p>
<p>With that I'd like to clarify the following things:&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>1. I don&rsquo;t want you out, nobody does.</strong></p>
<p>The knowledge, relationships, and respect that you&rsquo;ve accumulated over your 40+ years in the industry are unmatched and a key asset to our continued success.&nbsp; We all recognize that right now without you the business would struggle drastically.&nbsp; Besides, we all know you can&rsquo;t (and won&rsquo;t) fully retire.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>2. You hired competent people</strong></p>
<p>Put some trust in the people you hired, especially those who have been with you for years.&nbsp; It&rsquo;s okay if they fail because in order to grow we need to let others have control too.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>3. Roles change over time</strong></p>
<p>Nobody will ever do "it" as good as you.&nbsp; But you can't do everything if we want the business to continue on its current trajectory.&nbsp; As the company has grown, so too have the responsibilities of each key employee.&nbsp; With that we&rsquo;ve created an environment of accountability and ownership where all feel like this is their business.&nbsp; Just because they don&rsquo;t do things exactly as you would have doesn&rsquo;t mean they don&rsquo;t care and don&rsquo;t have the organization's best interests in mind.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>4. Succession planning</strong></p>
<p>Not an easy topic to broach, but one that we must take head on - TOGETHER.&nbsp; I'm in the family business too, <em>our</em> business, I want it to be successful so that you can enjoy your retirement years and not burn yourself out -- not only because you're my parents but because I also want to know that if things continue to go well, I can also benefit and take it a bit easy in my later years too.&nbsp;</p>
<p>So while sometimes it may seem like I&rsquo;m in a hurry to get to the top, I know it takes time and patience from my end.&nbsp; And a willingness from all of us to continue to provide critical feedback of one another.&nbsp; So, stay there for a while longer but give me and the rest of the team the power to make decisions and to make our own mistakes.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Humbly,</p>
<p>Number Two</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/24/small-shift-tip-have-the-courage-to-change.html"><rss:title>Small Shift Tip: Have the courage to change</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/24/small-shift-tip-have-the-courage-to-change.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Richard Magid</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-24T16:27:20Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Coaching Entrepreneur Small Business small business small shifts</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><span style="font-size: 120%;">We tend to resist anything new or different. Ask yourself these questions:</span></em></p>
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<p>Is the culture of your company one of resistance?</p>
<p>Do you experience push back on anything new?</p>
<p>What is under that "attitude of resistance"?</p>
<p>Do you have a lot of "legacy" employees that prefer things to stay the "way we have always done them"?</p>
</blockquote>
<p>These times require greater flexibility and constant reinvention. Most change does not have to be "big" for it to make an impact. One <a href="http://yoursoundboard.com/small-shifts/" target="_blank">small shift</a> to greater courage is just to notice when resistance is taking place; point it out to those resisting and ask why?</p>
<p>Where have you seen resistance in your organization and what can you do to change it?</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/19/a-realistic-approach-to-goal-setting-in-the-new-year.html"><rss:title>A Realistic Approach to Goal Setting in the New Year</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/19/a-realistic-approach-to-goal-setting-in-the-new-year.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Michael Rosone</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-19T17:44:52Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Coaching goal setting goals</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/SnVNoOAA84c" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/12/new-yearreflect-let-go.html"><rss:title>New Year...reflect &amp; let go!</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/12/new-yearreflect-let-go.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Robin Adwar</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-12T14:00:59Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While most people mark the New Year with annual resolutions, I look at my birthday as the demarcation point for that annual ritual.&nbsp; So what do I do on the New Year?&nbsp; For me the New Year is a time to reflect and let go. I reflect on my &ldquo;could of, would of, and should of's&rdquo; and then look forward to what the upcoming seasons will bring.</p>
<p>For me the New Year is a representation of the &ldquo;official&rdquo; start of Winter with all of its briskness. Winter offers me the chance to enjoy the warmth of a cozy chair and blanket and a book for new learning.&nbsp; Learning has always been a catalyst for me to stay passionate and engaged in my work. Winter is also a time to clean out my old files and calendars and purchase my fresh new planner. It is a chance to enjoy &ldquo;comfort&rdquo; food,&nbsp; Sunday night with the family watching movies and just spending more time indoors being together.</p>
<p>The New Year represents a fresh P&amp;L, the need to open new doors of opportunity, and a good reason to reconnect with clients, old and new.&nbsp;</p>
<p>2012 is here and with it comes the balance of excitement and pressure and the hope for great celebration and business growth!</p>
<p><strong><em>Would love to hear what a New Year represents to you!</em></strong></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/9/there-is-opportunity-in-every-day.html"><rss:title>There is opportunity in every day!</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/9/there-is-opportunity-in-every-day.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Richard Magid</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-09T14:00:27Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Entrepreneur Small Business</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah the start of another year! A clean slate and a chance to create a new beginning! Really? Or is it just another month that happens to have a different number associated with it? For me every day provides the opportunity to create a new beginning. I never really understood the mentality of "after the holidays" or "next year". Believe me, I have my own New Year's resolutions, but I also have my "today resolutions".</p>
<p>So, on January 4th, I sat at my desk to call all of those prospects that said "after the holidays"! I didn't want to call on the 3rd because they are all just getting back to work. They may think that I am being too aggressive or hungry for business. Well, wouldn't that be the truth! If I don't stick to my "today resolutions", my business would not move forward.</p>
<p>I am excited about the coming year. I think we all have worn out the excuses of the economy, European Debt Crisis, unstable Middle East governments, corrupt Wall Street, a leadership-less government, etc. The entrepreneurial spirit is as strong as ever in our country. So many new business ideas are being presented. The entrepreneurial business schools are filled to the brim. If the public sector is not going to support job growth, it is critical that the private sector invest back into this country's entrepreneurial foundation.</p>
<p>I am excited to share that we will be launching the SoundBoard Angel Fund early this year; primarily focused on providing seed capital to start-ups and early-stage companies. Our investor group of successful entrepreneurs is ready to make its impact on job creation. We are taking the steps to help fuel our future entrepreneurs and business leaders.</p>
<p><em><strong>How will you help impact the entrepreneurial spirit in this New Year and future years to come?</strong></em></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/3/thoughtful-conscious-happiness.html"><rss:title>Thoughtful &amp; Conscious Happiness</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2012/1/3/thoughtful-conscious-happiness.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Lauren Canning</dc:creator><dc:date>2012-01-03T16:43:11Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Coaching Leadership Development clarity reflection</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="_mcePaste">This time of year often makes us reflect upon our lives. It is a healthy practice to think about what the future holds and the past has afforded. &nbsp;Most times we do this in accordance with our careers; reviewing our successes and failures and setting goals for the coming year. &nbsp;I like to look at it as a whole picture, reviewing how each segment of my life impacts the other; especially as it influences my happiness. Because my happiness directly relates to my productivity in whatever I do.
</p>
<div id="_mcePaste"><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://yoursoundboard.com/storage/happy.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1325611131785" alt="" /></span></span>The year I turned 40, I had a revelation.&nbsp;I decided that if what I was doing did not make me happy, I&nbsp;was not going to do it anymore. &nbsp;A simple concept yet challenging to implement because I had come to realize that I hated my job, was overcommitted to volunteer activities and had evolved into a control freak. &nbsp;I knew it was time to make some big changes and that it would take some time to do, but I was committed!
</p>
<div id="_mcePaste">For me, change is easy; I like change and enjoy new things! &nbsp;The idea of searching out a new career was exciting. Scaling back to volunteer opportunities that only brought me happiness was the smartest thing I ever did (I know this sounds selfish but was actually smart, because I would give much more to the situation if it brought me joy!) &nbsp;I became more thoughtful in choosing hobbies and extra-curricular activities with my family and friends.
</p>
Now as I consider the New Year, I am excited and grateful for all of the great things coming my way. First, I will turn 50, (yes I am admitting that, am grateful for it and at this point in time I can say it does not bother me - check back with me in April). Second, my oldest child will graduate from college and my second will go off to college. This could make me melancholy, yet I embrace these new beginnings and look forward to sharing these new experiences with them. &nbsp;Third, my career continues to be a source of pride as I grow and develop each year, always offering me the opportunity to try new things and become involved in new ventures. &nbsp;And lastly after 24 years of marriage, my husband and I still find ways to act like kids and have a blast together!
</p>
There are always challenges and will be more. I could allow them to take over or I can choose to fight. It is the conscious effort and understanding of their impact that will make the difference.
</p>
<strong><em> What conscious efforts will you make to bring about a different year?</em></strong></div>
</div>
</div>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2011/12/28/small-shift-tip-focus-on-the-things-that-are-fully-in-your-c.html"><rss:title>Small Shift Tip: Focus on the things that are fully in your control</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2011/12/28/small-shift-tip-focus-on-the-things-that-are-fully-in-your-c.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Richard Magid</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-12-28T13:39:48Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Entrepreneur Small Business Strategic Planning clarity mission reflection ssmall shifts values vision</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><a href="http://yoursoundboard.com/small-shifts" target="_blank"><img style="width: 250px;" src="http://yoursoundboard.com/storage/SmallShifts_Logo.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1325080356271" alt="" /></a></span></span></p>
<p>This starts with defining the things that are no longer acceptable.</p>
<blockquote>
<p>What have you allowed to exist that violates your core values and the mission of the company? &nbsp;</p>
<p>Where do you need to say "no"? &nbsp;</p>
<p>Are you clear about your priorities and about what needs to get done each day/week/month?&nbsp;</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Take a deep breath before you act impulsively. &nbsp;Much of what we experience is based on what we do, not what "others" do to us! &nbsp;</p>
<p><strong> Make the<em> <a href="http://yoursoundboard.com/small-shifts" target="_blank">Small Shift</a></em> and put more of the things that are in your control on your "to do" list.</strong></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2011/12/15/leadership-lessons-from-frosty-the-snowman.html"><rss:title>Leadership Lessons from Frosty the Snowman</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2011/12/15/leadership-lessons-from-frosty-the-snowman.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Michael Rosone</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-12-15T14:00:00Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Entrepreneur Family Business Leadership Development Organizational Climate Small Business conflict emotional intelligence trust vision</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/dtiGADHKEHk" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2011/12/12/call-me-grinch-but-rudolph-the-red-nosed-reindeer-is-a-leade.html"><rss:title>Call Me Grinch, but Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer is a leadership disaster!</rss:title><rss:link>http://yoursoundboard.com/resonance/2011/12/12/call-me-grinch-but-rudolph-the-red-nosed-reindeer-is-a-leade.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Michael Rosone</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-12-12T14:00:07Z</dc:date><dc:subject>Coaching Leadership Development Organizational Climate Team culture development emotional intelligence productivity recognition strengths</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><span style="font-size: 70%;">We ran this as a two-part post last year at this time, it was so well received, we are posting again (all in one post)!</span></h3>
<p><em>A note from the author Michael Rosone: </em></p>
<p><em>This post is written in a lighthearted manner with humor<span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><img style="width: 175px;" src="http://yoursoundboard.com/storage/rudolph-red-nosed-reindeer5.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1323105337969" alt="" /></span>&nbsp;and&nbsp;leadership lessons at its core.&nbsp; It is not intended to dampen the holiday spirit or to take away from the joy that the film, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, has brought to so many people over the years.&nbsp;&nbsp;It is, instead, intended to illustrate the impact that those in a leadership position can have on others by highlighting specific scenes from the film that are both humorous and devoid of any true level of leadership.&nbsp; Happy holidays and great success in the New Year!</em></p>
<p>The film opens with Mrs. Clause laying out a feast for Santa in the days leading up to Christmas.&nbsp;&nbsp;Does Santa really need to be at his heaviest on his hardest and most stressful day of the year?&nbsp;&nbsp;He&rsquo;s not a Thanksgiving turkey that needs &ldquo;fattening up&rdquo;; rather he should be cross training to be in the best shape of his life.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Leadership Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp;Don&rsquo;t mistreat your body and expect it to be in peak physical shape.&nbsp; Instead, remember that a healthy leader &ndash; physically, mentally, and spiritually &ndash; makes for a better, more focused leader and sets a similar example for the rest of the organization.</em></p>
<p>Shortly thereafter Rudolph meets Santa for the first time and his nose begins to glow. Donner, Rudolph's father, immediately says, &ldquo;I'm sure it will stop as soon as he grows up Santa.&rdquo; &nbsp;To which Santa replies, &ldquo;Let&rsquo;s hope so if he wants to make the sleigh team some day.&rdquo;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Leadership Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp;What does the color of Rudolph&rsquo;s nose have to do with his ability to pull Santa&rsquo;s sleigh?&nbsp; Based on Santa&rsquo;s &ldquo;husky&rdquo; size, I&rsquo;d think that strength, speed, endurance, and vertical leap would round out the top criteria.&nbsp; It is not good practice (nor is it legal) to summarily discount someone who does not outwardly appear to have the right qualities.</em></p>
<p>Donner continues, &ldquo;Santa's right, he'll never make the sleigh team.&rdquo;&nbsp; And shortly after comes up with a genius plan to hide Rudolph's nose by applying mud on it, &ldquo;You'll be a normal little buck just like everyone else."</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Leadership Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp;Instead of celebrating the aspect of his son that makes him unique, Donner is trying to make him &ldquo;normal.&rdquo;&nbsp; This sends the wrong message to Rudolph, asking him to hide his talents and strengths instead of using them.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Parenting Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp;Really Donner? Really?</em></p>
<p>The story moves to Santa's workshop where all the elves are making toys.&nbsp; We are introduced to Hermey, who is affectionately referred to as &ldquo;the Misfit Elf&rdquo; because he doesn't want to make toys; instead he wants to be a dentist.&nbsp;&nbsp;More appalling than the ridicule Hermey endures by his co-workers, the other elves, is the contempt and lack of respect by his boss who openly mocks him in front of the other elves for having aspirations other than toy-making.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Leadership Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp;While it can be argued that Hermey's boss had a right to be frustrated given that the primary responsibility for an elf in Santa's workshop is &ldquo;toy making,&rdquo; he failed to express his feedback and disappointment in private, opting for a manner that was disrespectful to and demoralizing for his employee.&nbsp;&nbsp;He also missed an opportunity to think outside of the box and consider how Hermey&rsquo;s unique passion and skill set could benefit the company as a potential off season revenue stream (e.g., opening up a dentistry to diversify services and treat toothaches after Halloween).</em></p>
<p>After being told by his father &ldquo;There are more important things than comfort - like self-respect,&rdquo; Rudolph begins singing, &ldquo;Why am I such a misfit, I am not just a nitwit.&nbsp; Just because my nose glows why don't I fit in?&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;(Not sure if they keep statistics on how many reindeer are diagnosed as clinically depressed but if this is the type of leadership and parenting that takes place in the North Pole, then there is an opportunity and a market for &ldquo;anti-deer-pressants,&rdquo;&nbsp;<em>patent pending</em>).</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Parenting/Leadership Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp;Although Donner thought he was helping his son and teaching him a valuable life lesson, the lack of acceptance of his uniqueness and the lack of unconditional support and love left Rudolph feeling confused, devalued and feeling like a misfit.&nbsp; What impact do you think that has on motivation and productivity?</em></p>
<p>Along those same lines Hermey's boss later finds Hermey fixing the teeth of a doll.&nbsp;&nbsp;When asked why he was doing that Hermey responds, &ldquo;I was just trying to fit in.&rdquo; &nbsp;His boss replies similarly as Donner and emphasizes that Hermey will never fit in.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Leadership Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp;Harshly reprimanding (bordering berating) an employee does not build trust and a yearning to do better quality work.&nbsp; To the contrary any discretionary effort the employee would have put forward will most likely be withheld.&nbsp; And rather than the organization benefiting from an engaged and motivated employee, the most the organization can now hope for is compliance.</em></p>
<p>The film takes us to the&nbsp;<em>Reindeer Games</em>&nbsp;with Comet, the Coach, trying to teach the young reindeer to fly.&nbsp;&nbsp;After Rudolph is told he is cute by Clarice, the only one who unconditionally accepts him, Rudolph flies better than all the other reindeer.&nbsp;&nbsp;Everyone is impressed (even, and especially, Santa).&nbsp; But, once the cover falls off Rudolph's nose, everyone begins to call him names.&nbsp;&nbsp;Santa turns to Donner, &ldquo;You should be ashamed of yourself.&rdquo;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Leadership Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp;Where&rsquo;s the Christmas spirit of acceptance Mr. Kringle?&nbsp; So let&rsquo;s get this straight, Santa, who has spent the last month gorging himself and whose fashion sense consists of an overgrown beard, a red velvet suit held in place by a 17 inch square belt buckle and big black vinyl&nbsp; boots is passing judgment on a father of child simply because the child was born with a different feature than others.&nbsp; If anyone should be ashamed, it should be Santa for his inability to be accepting of others. If Santa really thought about it and truly believed that people are judged on how they look he would quickly see that he too is the exception. </em></p>
<p>And just when you thought it&nbsp;couldn't&nbsp;get any worse, Rudolph tries to join the rest of the reindeer but Comet (the&nbsp;<em>adult</em>&nbsp;coach) says, &ldquo;No, no, you better go back home with your folks.&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp;He then says to the other reindeer, &ldquo;From now on gang, we won't let Rudolph join in any reindeer games, right?&rdquo;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Leadership Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp; The only thing worse than the coach/mentor ostracizing someone who wants to be on the team, is his willingness to rally others to also exclude the supposed under-performer.&nbsp; The irony&nbsp;is that Rudolph actually performed better than the others, yet his immediate supervisor, Coach Comet, along with the head of the organization, Santa, were stuck in their paradigm of what they believed a high performing reindeer should look like rather than looking at Rudolph&rsquo;s talent.</em></p>
<p>The story continues, Rudolph leaves home and only returns after a run in with the Abominable Snow&nbsp;Monster.&nbsp; When finally reaching home, Santa informs him that Rudolph&rsquo;s parents have been gone looking for him and haven&rsquo;t been seen in months.&nbsp; Santa continues, &ldquo;And I'm really worried.&nbsp; Christmas Eve is only two days away and without your father, I'll never get my sleigh off the ground.&rdquo;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><em>Leadership Don&rsquo;t:</em></strong><em>&nbsp;Santa basically says &ldquo;My social motive of personal power does not allow me to be emotionally intelligent enough to realize that you Rudolph, cold, scared, and deprived of any self-esteem, may be worried about the safety of your parents and your girlfriend.&nbsp;&nbsp;The only thing that matters is what I need.&rdquo;&nbsp; Santa clearly is lacking in empathy, a key characteristic for successful leaders.</em></p>
<p>So while Rudolph will go down in history &ndash; and deservedly so for persevering through and rising above the poor leadership and the lousy organizational climate he was subjected to &ndash; I hope the overriding theme of the story resonates with you:&nbsp;<em>Just because someone on your team does not outwardly appear to be a contributor, don't judge or project a set of limiting beliefs until he/she is given the opportunity to show you how unique they truly are.&nbsp;</em>&nbsp;You may be pleasantly surprised.</p>
<p>Plus don't we all have some kind of &ldquo;shiny nose?&rdquo;</p>
<p>Happy Holidays!</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item></rdf:RDF>
